Best guy friend is gone...??

so ive had an awesome friendship with my best guy friend. i made a quick decision a month ago to transfer to college. when i told him he got really mad at me because "i didnt tell him sooner." after that things seemed ok, but he suddenly got really busy and started hanging out with people and started talking to this girl. i really doubt they have anything, but all of the sudden he stops txting me and we stop hanging out. this really shouldnt mean anything (honestly i dont care but its something) but he moved me to like second to last on his myspace top list thing and she is in my spot. i tried to talk to him about it but he said "no, everything is fine with us! our frienship is fine..." but i NEVER hear from him anymore. this girl went back to school now but hes still not talkin. im hurt....and kinda shocked. i kinda figured our frienship is caput if hes gonna do that to me....but i really dont know. any advice?

Best guy friend is gone...??

: ( I know how this feels. I had a really good guy friend too and for the longest time he wasn't dating. We had a wonderful platonic friendship. I knew one day I would have to step back for a new girlfriend. I really wasn't prepared like I thought I would be. We had made plans to meet and hangout over a vacation (I moved out of state) and I let him decide that we would. I stopped calling him letting him call me when I found out he had a girlfriend. Well I left a message and called twice but he didn't get back to me. I was floored and felt such despair. I wondered if it was the end of our friendship. And it hurt severely. After leaving a little note on myspace he eventually got back to me saying her horse was sick and he was taking care of it with her. Still, it hurt being left in the dark. I imagine that's what is happening to you. I'm learning to pull away so that he can be happy. It wasn't easy at first. The main thing is to talk to him about how you feel. Let him know that you miss talking to him. If he cares he will make an effort to keep in touch sometimes. Otherwise you may want to let him go completely and allow him to contact you instead. It's really hard to do but you'll be happier in the end.

Best guy friend is gone...??

if you and him are just friends, then it shouldn't bother you that you have been rated second and she is first. Maybe she is his girlfriend now and he's having a hard time telling you. people act crazy when they are in new relationships and tend to forget their friends, but give him time and he'll soon start to mellow out. He's already told you things are good between you so relax. Ask him to see a movie or something to try spend some time together.

Best guy friend is gone...??

Well it sounds to me like he wanted only certain aspects of your "friendship" and when you decided on your own as you are entitled to do, that you would move closer to him, he stepped back farther away. what is your gut telling you? go with that. He doesn't sound like a true "friend".

Best guy friend is gone...??

you can't have guy friends. their girlfriends won't allow it. would YOU let a boyfriend of yours go out with other single girls?

thats a rhetorical question btw

Of course nobody would.

Its just how things are.

grow up.

Best guy friend is gone...??

perhaps you just need to give him time, hes probly upset your not going to around so is trying to distance himself so its not so bad once you do leave, text him now and then and make sure you give contact details when you go away, sure it be fine, your just moving in different directions at the moment. ive been friends since 11yrs old with my mate and i moved away for few years and didnt see her very often but when i came back it was like id never been away, weve been friends 25 years now so dont give up on it if his friendship means that much x