Do I try to make it work or dump her?

She is very good looking, intelligent, younger than me, adventerous, hard working. She lives 1000+ milies away. She sometimes refuses to answer her phone for long periods of time. She says she loves but sometimes doesnt seem to really care about whats going on in my life...just talks about herself. She sends me candy but im not not in her myspace top 8.

Do I try to make it work or dump her?

Dump her

Do I try to make it work or dump her?

What does myspace have to do anything with it?

Do I try to make it work or dump her?

go meet her and c wut happens

Do I try to make it work or dump her?

There are a lot of factors that aren't mentioned here: how old are you two? How long have you been together? And what does myspace have to do with it??

Do I try to make it work or dump her?

try to make it work...she's probably just a bit stubborn....keep trying to talk to her...don't worry about myspace....it could mean she forgot to update it, or she decided to just keep it nearby people, or she promised a bunch of her friends...it could be anything....maybe the only reason is she could be just angry in genearl, for being far away and stuff....just talk to her about it

Do I try to make it work or dump her?

sounds like you are not in her anything top 8. find a nice girl that lives near you and go from there.

Do I try to make it work or dump her?

dump her.she only loves herself.don't waste your time.

Do I try to make it work or dump her?

I'd let her go man, you can find someone closer that can actually be a part of your life (and want to be). There's a lot of attractive single people out there, and I certainly don't get the not answering the phone thing- unless she isn't into you and can't tell you that or maybe she's keeping you on the backburner. I'd say leave her alone, let her call you, if she doesn't move on. -Hugs

Do I try to make it work or dump her?

Forget her. It's a distance thing so there's already problems there. Talk to her but don't get hung up on her. Obviously she's not into you and just playing games, keeping you on the safety list.

Do I try to make it work or dump her?

I say dump her!! Obviously she doesn't feel the same way you feel about her! I know that the people I love are on my top 8 on my myspace...It may just be a little thing like that...but it really means something to the people who are listed. If she's younger than you maybe she's just not ready for a relationship!!

Do I try to make it work or dump her?

myspace? do you know her face to face..? or did u meet her in some chatroom?

Do I try to make it work or dump her?

Move on.......

Do I try to make it work or dump her?

"lived together"what happened to that?1000 miles is a long way.You sound obsessed.Meet her and notice her behavior.You will know if she is serious or not.

Do I try to make it work or dump her?

Well, if you really love this girl, try to think about the situation this way, she loves you too but maybe she is a not-showy type of a woman, and evrybody loves in different ways of expressing it... Don't think anything bad about her, as you described her as being hard-working and intelligent, she is maybe more focused in her career than your relationship, and as a man who really loves, you should understand that... Being a career oriented person is not a negative attitude, its just showing that they also love and prioritize themselves because they also want to achieve something for themselves, they also want to be successful in life... Imagine this, wouldn't it make you proud having a girlfriend or even wife in the future who is very successful? Be proud and love her who she really is, you don't know maybe she is doing this both for your future, and for sure, you are her inspiration... The best thing to do is try to look deeply of what she is doing and understand her for that, as for you, make her proud too by establishing yourself like what she is doing, its for the good of both of you...