I don't get it, I think I'm friends with this girl but then why does she do this?.........

I'm 19 years old and this girl I'm friends with is soon to be 18. She is the most amazing girl ever. We talk a lot, and before she got in trouble we used to hang out a lot. She knows I like her a lot. When we hang out we have a good time talking and laughing about anything and everything. She tells me things that are really personal such as details about her parents getting divorced, etc. I know its not a big deal but when I saw her myspace top friends I wasn't on there, why do you think she is leaving me off? BTW I have hung out with her friends before so I don't think she is embarrassed to hang out with me. I'm a really nice guy and I have done A LOT for her to show her I like her and because I'm a good friend. My friends think I'm too nice and that I'm a pushover but I don't think I am. I admit I'm somewhat shy and I go out of my way to help friends sometimes too much, but I like helping people, is this a bad thing as far as girls likeing me?

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I don't get it, I think I'm friends with this girl but then why does she do this?.............?

There is more to friendship than being in the top 10 friends list on MY Space. First of all, true friends wouldn't let that bother them and second, she knows who her friends are and she is comfortable with that. If you want it to be more than friendship then you have to talk to her. You have to be honest with her. You have to let her know what is going on and let her choose. You just keep being a good friend if that is all you want, but if not, then you have to tell her how you feel and talk about it if she feels the same way.

I don't get it, I think I'm friends with this girl but then why does she do this?.............?

i think i dont its a bad thing.but i do think ur beging tooo nice.im not tryin to say to be mean.but slow down.why dont u ask her and tell u how u feel

I don't get it, I think I'm friends with this girl but then why does she do this?.............?

Yes, you need not be there to wait on a girl hand and foot. It's the worst thing you can do. In fact the more you act like you don't care about them, the more they are going to be drawn to you. I don't believe this is true for all cases, but most of them. If you are like that with her now, how suffocating will you be if you were to date her? She is probably aware of you being a push over, and this is a turn off to her. Girls have girlfriends to help them through there problems. Thats not your job. Don't be a therapist.

I don't get it, I think I'm friends with this girl but then why does she do this?.............?

ummm...i really wouldn't be that concerned about not being on her myspace friends. if you are referring to her top friends, i rarely ever change mine or pay that much attention to what order my friends are in so maybe she is the same way. anyway just hang in there and keep a good relationship with her and keep earning her trust by listening to her personal issues. it will pay off in the long run for sure! do not push a relationship on her that is the biggest turn off. just be there for her until she's ready. even if that time never comes at least you've got a good friend out of the deal. good luck!